The Victory Won

Trials are part of this world, but they are not the end of our story, they don’t define us. Because of Christ, these things have no lasting power. It may seem like they continually win the battle with our physical lives, but the victory of the war belongs to the Lord (1 Corinthians 15:55–57). Because of this, our burdens have been lifted. The illusion of control is broken down. Fear fades into confidence in his strength. We are reminded that nothing can ever happen outside of God’s plan (Job 12:10). His plan is unfolding, and he fights against anything that tries to interfere. The world will not win. It cannot steal you from God’s hand.

No matter what his plan entails, he is walking alongside us through the deep waters — through the halls of hospitals, through divorce, through depression, through financial stress, through the days of uncertainty — toward his promises. He is guiding and protecting us each step of the way. Fear may threaten to take over as we wait to see where he leads us next, but we can be assured we will receive the ultimate promise of life given to every believer (Romans 8:38–39). One day, we will be free from this world. Death and suffering will be no more (Revelation 21:4). We will look back on all the battles he fought on our behalf and praise his eternal victory!

Mint Chocolate Chip Cookies

This season I have decided to practice some of my mother’s recipes from her recipe box & I am so excited to share with you some of my family’s favorite holiday goodies! First stop – Mint Chocolate Chip Cookies


1 pouch sugar cookie mix

1/2 margarine, softened

1/4 teaspoon mint extract

8 drops green food color

1 egg

1 cup creme de menthe baking chips

1 cup semisweet chocolate chunks


1. Mix sugar cookie mix, margarine, extract, food color and egg in bowl, until soft dough forms. Stir in creme de menthe baking chips and chocolate chunks.

2. Using small cookie scoop, drop dough 2 inches apart on ungraded cookie sheet.

3. Bake at 350 F for 8 to 10 minutes. Cool 3 minutes; remove from sheet to wire rack. Serve warm with a cold glass of milk!

down time

Most people’s idea of effective “down time” includes a lazy day by the pool, indulging in artisan food and drinks, binging on Netflix and spending entire days shopping or playing golf. But during Jesus’ earthly ministry, He had a very different solution for finding the refreshment and refueling He needed. Yes, Jesus did take “time away” periodically from the demands of the crowds and the intensity of ministry. But He didn’t need to lounge by the ocean or turn to worldly entertainment to find the rest and new strength He needed. Rather, the Bible describes many different occasions when Jesus resorted to a mountain alone to pray, or rose up early in the morning to spend time in God’s presence.

“Before daybreak the next morning, Jesus got up and went out to an isolated place to pray.” Mark 1:35 NLT

“After telling everyone good-bye, he went up into the hills by himself to pray.” Mark 6:46 NLT

Jesus carried more weight on His shoulders than any of us can even imagine. Yet He knew that the only way to gain strength for the battles He was called to fight was to spend time alone with God in prayer.

Whenever I’m in need of rest, perspective, and new strength, I’m learning to look to the example of Christ, instead of the example of the world, to gain the refueling I seek. Certainly there is nothing wrong with doing practical things in order to refuel and recharge. A long walk, a refreshing bike ride, an hour journaling outside in God’s creation, an encouraging chat with a trusted friend, or meaningful family vacation can be wonderful ways to gain clearer perspective. But it’s important not to give into the voice that whispers, you should deserve some self-indulgence right now. Give into the cravings of your flesh, just for a little while. Take time for YOU!

Taking time away to refresh and refuel should flow from a motive of becoming even stronger and more equipped to serve Jesus Christ – not simply to “escape” from the responsibilities of serving and godly living.

Over the past few months, I have found that the best “me time” is actually not “me time” at all, but “God time.” Prayer, journaling, worship, and listening to Christian podcast for lasting refreshment to my soul. When I say “no” to personal indulgences in order to say “yes” to time in the presence of God, I find I’m not missing out on anything. In fact, I find all of the lasting joy, peace, and strength I need in Him. Psalm 16:11 says “You will show me the way of life, granting me the joy of your presence and the pleasures of living with you forever.”

May we allow that reality to be proven true in our lives, instead of turning to the empty allurements of the world. Time alone with our God is truest source of refueling our souls can ever find.

When suffering comes…

“Therefore, since we have been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ our Lord has done for us. Because of our faith, Christ has brought us into this place of undeserved privilege where we now stand, and we confidently and joyfully look forward to sharing God’s glory. We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love.” Romans 5:1-5 NLT

Those who believe in Jesus as their Savior from sin’s penalty have much to rejoice in! Romans 5:2 states the fact that Christians are to rejoice in the hope of the glory of God. The text teaches us to rejoice in our sufferings. We rejoice in suffering for what it produces in us. The word “suffering” describes the outward and inward distress in our lives.

Suffering produces in us the capacity to bear up in the face of difficulty. Every believer has the capacity to handle any distress in their lives. Jesus told believers to rejoice and be glad when people persecute them, insult them and do all kinds of evil to them (Matthew 5:11-12). He taught believers how to live in peace when suffering the stresses of life (John 16:33). God’s word is very clear that believers will have suffering while living for Christ and will endure by living according to the truth.

As believers we persevere by living according to the truth and with the godly character produced in us. As godly character is experienced, hope is produced and hope doesn’t disappoint or put us to shame because the Holy Spirit pours God’s love into our hearts. People who have certain hope and the unfailing love of God are strong and courageous. Their faith does not wavier and their hearts cannot be broken.

Times of distress are opportunities to put God’s word to the test and find it is true. Sufferings are opportunities to develop godly character, certain hope and experience the outpouring of God’s love by the Holy Spirit. When suffering comes into your life begin to rejoice knowing God will use the suffering to benefit you with a more certain hope and an outpouring of His love into your life. The proper response to suffering is to trust and obey the Lord.


Paul tells us, “Obviously, I’m not trying to win the approval of people, but of God. If pleasing people were my goal, I would not be Christ’s servant.” Galatians 1:10 NLT

A few years ago I was dealt with a harsh blow of rejection from someone close to me. In the midst of my recovery from the pain and shock, I became so focused on my hurt feelings that it was almost impossible for me to think clearly or rationally. I was consumed by thoughts about the rejection.

How could that person have done and said that to me? Do they know how much I have done for them? Have they taken a hard look at themselves?

My human nature wanted to get back at the one who hurt me. Maybe give them a taste of their own medicine. But God had a different plan. He wanted me to handle this challenging and painful situation with understanding and compassion. He wanted me to pray for my “rejecter”. He wanted me to forgive them. Yes, pray for them and YES, forgive them.

Through constant prayer He repeatedly intervened and reassured me of His love. I stumbled across Bible verses dealing with overcoming rejection. He gently reassured me of my worth in His eyes and reminded me that my value wasn’t based on man’s approval, but solely on His.

God’s reassurance and words of encouragement helped wash away my pride and began to replace it with His mercy and grace. I was reminded that I am His and He loves me despite my flaws and insecurities.

As a result, I was able to take my focus off of my rejecter, and instead focus on my approver – Jesus.

Although Jesus may not always approve of our actions or choices, He always approves of us as a person whom He created, whom He loves, and whom He thought was important enough to die for.

Isn’t it comforting to know we never have to try to earn Jesus’ approval, and that we can live with a peace of mind knowing He accepts us no matter what?

Lord, fill us with Your love so we can love others, even when we do not feel loved in return. Please help us to remember the only One we need to seek approval from and that in You alone we can truly believe we are worthy of Your unconditionally loved.

A blink of an eye

In a blink of an eye the life you knew could be taken from you. A romantic relationship gone awry. The loss of a cherished friendship. A puppy put down. Empty arms and a broken heart due to abortion. Infertility. Abuse. The death of a loved one. Dreams with a hope and future dashed in an instant.

I know. I have lived it, too. I lost my mother to a long battle of cancer recently and before that, I went through a devastating divorce. I remember thinking before my mother’s passing, “I can handled having someone walk out of my life but I know I can’t survive losing someone to death.” All of my hopes and dreams were shattered in a blink of my eye.

At my lowest moments, realization and remembrance, my thoughts are flooded with: God lost His Son, His only Son. The Father knew my loss, pain and brokenness oh so well.

That revelation is like supernatural glue applied to bind my wounded heart. The lost, dark, broken part receded as God proceeded to heal my wounds with His love and light.

How about your lost plans, hopes and dreams? Are you bitter?

What do you do? How do you move forward?

Are you ready to lay your heavy cares at the foot of the cross… and leave that burden there, so you can step into God’s plans for you? Jesus promised, “For My yoke is easy and My burden is light,” Matthew 11:30. And “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Psalm 147:3

God’s plan for His Son was not what the people hoped for and expected as they celebrated the arrival of Jesus in Jerusalem that first Palm Sunday, then experienced His death on the cross by week’s end. They did not know Easter Sunday — His Son’s day — was coming.

Remember… Sunday came and Jesus arose from the grave by the grace of God to save and redeem us. This is a promise for our lives – He has plans for us that include a hope and a future, even when our plans are dashed and we can’t see beyond the overwhelming loss of now. As stated, “‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future,’” Jeremiah 29:11

Our prize will always be ahead of us, never behind us. What is in the past, is in the past. Look ahead today, God is moving you into your future. “I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.” Philippians 3:14

God would never give us more than we can handle.

Mothers – Daughters

A call to Mothers & Daughters: This process requires a relationship. You must be consistently, actively, and intimately involved in their lives.

To Daughters: May I urge you not to resist your mom’s involvement in your life? If you have built a moat around your heart, you have not cut off an enemy but a friend. A friend who has the essential tools you need to navigate throughout your years. Your mom isn’t perfect, but I am almost certain she is lovingly committed to being your friend so that she can lead you in the ways of the Lord.

To Mothers: I can imagine you responding out loud to me as you read this. “I’m convinced that I need to be involved in my daughter’s life. I want to be a faithful mom, but she won’t let me get close to her. What am I to do?” I don’t pretend to hold the key to a girl’s heart, but I know the one who does. As mothers you must appeal directly to the throne of our almighty God. Proverbs 21:1 discloses: “The king’s heart is like a stream of water directed by the Lord; he guides it wherever he pleases.” The sovereign God holds your daughters’ hearts in His hand. No moat or barrier is too difficult for Him to overcome. Prayer is a key to accessing your daughter’s heart.

To earn this friendship, you must first earn their trust. You must approach this relationship with humility and ask questions. You can’t assume that you know the reasons they may keep you at arm’s length. Maybe you have unwittingly offended them, or they are bitter over a decision you have made. In many cases their hearts may have grown proud.

Discuss why rejecting each other is displeasing to God and would be detrimental for your relationship. Tell them again and again how much you love them and that you are eager to be their friend. Have these conversations repeatedly over a period of time, until God’s grace begins to breakthrough to their hearts. Communication is indispensable in building a friendship with them.

I encourage you all, make the Mother-Daughter relationship one of our highest priorities. After your relationship with God and your spouse, nothing should receive more attention, focus, and time.

I know that this intentional relationship requires exceptional sacrifice. But God will give you ample strength as you look to Him. “The Lord is my strength and shield. I trust him with all my heart. He helps me, and my heart is filled with joy. I burst out in songs of thanksgiving.”

And although you may not be able to spend a lot of time with them, He will graciously multiply your efforts to teach them the language of biblical womanhood. “Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me.” 2 Corinthians 12:9

My mother and I had an incredible relationship. One of trust, openness, laughter and strength. I pray you all can experience this type of relationship. Work hard at it, it is worth it. To this day, my mother will always be my best friend. Her words, her kindness and her love resonates with me always.

Morning sunlight

“Your eye is like a lamp that provides light for your body. When your eye is healthy, your whole body is filled with light. But when it is unhealthy, your body is filled with darkness. Make sure that the light you think you have is not actually darkness. If you are filled with light, with no dark corners, then your whole life will be radiant, as though a floodlight were filling you with light.” Luke 11:34-36

Your eye becomes the lamp of your body when you see the lamp of God’s greatness in the world. “When your eye is healthy, your whole body is filled with light.” In other words, if your eye sees me for who I really am, then you are full of light; but if you don’t see me for who I am, then you are full of darkness.

There is much that passes for light through the eye that is not light. There are many bright things in the world that keep us from seeing the true light of Christ—just like city lights keep you from seeing the stars. Be careful what you see! Be careful what you regard as bright and attractive and compelling. If it is not Christ, you will be filled with darkness—no matter how bright it seems for a season. Candles seem bright until the sun comes out. Then they are useless and put away.

Christ is the glory we were made to see. His light alone will fill us and give the light of life and meaning to every part of our lives. And when that happens, we ourselves will shine and give off the rays of Christ. “If you are filled with light, with no dark corners, then your whole life will be radiant, as though a floodlight were filling you with light.” Our hope is that the eyes of our hearts will open to see the supreme greatness of the wisdom and power of our Father. Making our eyes good. Healing our blindness. Filling us with the all-pervading, all-exposing, all-purifying, all-pleasing light of His presence.

I am forgiven

There have been many times in my life when I took matters into my own hands. Chased after success, needed all of the latest and greatest things and jumped headfirst into relationships. Undoubtedly, all of the chasing, needing & jumping – quickly turned me into someone I was not. The tasks of graduating college, getting married, buying the best house in the neighbor, making money, going on extravagant trips was a to-do list instead of a purposeful, intentional plan. It wasn’t until I lost everything was when I found all I needed and more. The recovery & healing over the past few years has brought me back to who I am, who I am in Christ. Today I am blessed beyond measure. Knowing that God is in control and His plan is always better than mine. I thank the Lord for His grace, love & mercy today & everyday. I am forgiven & so are you.

“But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness.” John 1:9

Looking back to push forward

Life is not always easy to live, but the opportunity to do so is a blessing beyond comprehension. In the process of living we will face struggles, many of which will cause us to suffer and to experience pain or suffer as we watch loved ones struggle. Looking back a year ago today, I am reminded that life is a precious gift. Within minutes, a life that is fully alive can be taken in a blink of an eye. 

We cannot always control everything that happens to us in this life, but if we so choose, we can control how we respond to everything that happens. Count your blessings twice today. 

When extracted from the earth, silver is intertwined with other minerals and trapped within various ores. It requires purification to be made unblemished and untarnished. Purifying silver is a process requiring intentional attention and concentration. The refiner must place the silver ore in the hottest part of the flame and keep an eye on it to know exactly when it’s ready. Being a Christian doesn’t guarantee that we escape the “fires” of life. There are many trials and hard times we will inevitably go through. Yet Malachi 3:3 says that God “will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver.” This should be a comfort to us. God will watch us the entire time we’re experiencing these times and knows that everything we endure, in the end, is for our own benefit.

He also knows when we’re ready to exit the flame. We leave the fire more refined, less blemished and with a brilliant shine, reflecting even more of His image. Paul tells us to find confidence in this, “that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” Philippians 1:6